Step by Step

I went on a date the other night that broke my heart a little. Though perfectly “fine”, nothing dramatic, no sparks, nothing unusual, there was no attraction (on my part), totally different lifestyles, and no reason, that I could see, to go out again. I found myself staring at the jeweled cufflink peaking out from […]

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Well, that was fun?

So, here’s the thing about going on a bunch of dates with guys who you meet online and may or may not really be interested in for the long run. It’s exhausting! It was fun for a minute; getting dressed up, trying new places, meeting new people, and then, very quickly, it became a total […]

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To Swipe. Or Not To Swipe.

I ran from online dating for as long as possible, but eventually realized it was going to have to be part of my meeting people repertoire because…it just was.  Remember when you used to go out to a coffee shop or a bar and people would look around and interact and possibly make eye contact […]

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Mirrors

re·flec·tion rəˈflekSH(ə)n/ noun 1. the throwing back by a body or surface of light, heat, or sound without absorbing it. 2. serious thought or consideration  A few months into my most recent online dating foray, it has become clear that, in the search for love, most of us simply attract mirrors, over and over and […]

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